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Anonymous asked: what happened to your blog?

I stopped using it :/

I can start up again if you’d like

Anonymous asked: There is a girl I like who has a boyfriend. He plays on a team with me. He and I get along real well. She asked me if would I go out with her and I said that I would. I asked her about her relationship with her boyfriend. She said it was on again off again and she didn't know where it was going.
I don’t really know what she wants from me. I don’t know whether she is serious. What should I do?

Well, she asked you whether you would go out with her. No one can read anyone’s mind about how she really feels. However, one can take a good guess by listening to her words and watching her actions. I get a sense you don’t want to be toyed with. So, I would be frank with her: If you want to go out with me, you go out with no one else.

Tell her to make up her mind.

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